*meets u at a party* small talk is for posers, rate yr current level of existential dread from 1 to 10, let’s be emotionaly intimate forever starting now
okay binder donation companies.. what you are doing is great.. but when you say “trans and genderqueer people who need them” you should probably understand that the trans people need them and majority of the genderqueer people (I SAID MAJORITY - I KNOW THERE ARE SOME WITH DYSPHORIA) are just using them to look more manly and play around with gender. and that’s not really needing them. so i really hope trans kids are the priority. because if not that would be painfully unfair and a perfect example of how special snowflake trans* people are affecting our community in a negative way.
genderqueer people are trans you fuckwad and “playing around with their gender” is them trying to find how they truly feel comfortable, same as a binary trans guy would
Actually the majority of binary trans guys need binders to you know… curb their dysphoria.. they’re not playing around or trying to figure anything out. They know what’s wrong, and they know what they can do to help it. So I don’t get why free binders would go out to little cutesy genderqueer kids who don’t even experience dysphoria bad enough to need to bind and are just using it to present differently for fun.
no what the fuck is this - “bad enough to bind”? what the fuck does that mean? i’m a fucking nonbinary person who was dfab who experiences dysphoria and i have my whole life, and you’re judging me for what? being “less trans” than a trans boy? purely because i’ve realized i can actually identify out of the binary and just because i dont ID as a male doesn’t mean i have to ID as girl? like i spent YEARS thinking i was stuck as a girl because i thought the only other option was being a boy and i didnt want to pretend to be that either. and you fucking think - what, you think that identifying as outside the binary means feeling or looking like my assigned gender isn’t fucking awful? that it isn’t awful for other NB people either? you’re being SO fucking transmysogynistic and binarist about this and SO fucking judgmental and wrong about nonbinary people. playing around with gender is how we find out HOW TO IDENTIFY THAT DOESNT GIVE US DYSPHORIA. OR MAKES US FEEL COMFORTABLE IN OUR SKIN. AND GOOD ABOUT OURSELVES. how is it more important for a trans guy to feel comfortable in their skin than a nonbinary person? but you decided you already *know* how we feel and how we think, and none of us are *really* experiencing any problems. just because we ID outside the binary. how fucking disgusting of you.
i just. stop fucking policing our brains and our feelings and our identity. check yourself.